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Aug 27

I cheated on my hubby (once) before we got married 5 yrs ago, and yes i confess what I did before we said ''I Do'',then he recently cheated on me and got busted. I have filed for a divorce, but we believe that our marriage can be saved, but are at a lost where to began repairing the damage, when we have our families in our ears telling us that we're stupid to save it, because someone who cheats will always cheat??

It is great that both of you want to save the marriage! With both of you working, you should be able to save it.

1) IGNORE THE FAMILIES! They don't know all the intimate details and don't need to. Just smile and say that's an interesting idea and go on.

2) GET COUNSELING! From a real marriage counselor. They may be expensive, but some insurance companies will cover part of the cost. It is worth it to save your marriage.

3) DON'T LISTEN TO OTHER OPINIONS! Its true that "Once a cheater - always a cheater" applies to most cases. But it will not apply to your marriage if you are both working to make it better.

GOOD LUCK, I WISH YOU THE BEST!!
It is so wonderful to hear that both people care about the marriage!

Aug 27

Ok so I am trying to make things work with my ex girlfriend. We dated for almost 2 years and lived together for 1.5 years. We broke up about 2 months ago I don’t really want to get into why and it doesn’t matter. I started talking to her and hanging out with her again about 3 weeks ago. Everything is going great we have fun together and have really good conversations. I want to try to work things out and so does she I believe. We both love each other still and say it to each other. The problem is that about a month ago she started seeing another guy. I know him he is very good friends with most of my friends and best friends with one of her roommates. I asked her today if she was still seeing him and she told me that she wasn’t. I want to believe her but she seemed very evasive talking about it. We have kept that fact that we are hanging out and talking a lot secret from everyone. At first she said that it was because she didn’t want the other guy to find out about it. This weekend she is having a party at her house I’m not sure if the guy will be there but I’m guessing he will be because his best friend lives there. How should I handel the situation if he is there? And what should I do if I find out my ex is still seeing him? I love her very much and really want to make this work. What should I do?

Face it dude she’s just not that into ya! Time to move on down the road.

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