Ok so I am trying to make things work with my ex girlfriend. We dated for almost 2 years and lived together for 1.5 years. We broke up about 2 months ago I don’t really want to get into why and it doesn’t matter. I started talking to her and hanging out with her again about 3 weeks ago. Everything is going great we have fun together and have really good conversations. I want to try to work things out and so does she I believe. We both love each other still and say it to each other. The problem is that about a month ago she started seeing another guy. I know him he is very good friends with most of my friends and best friends with one of her roommates. I asked her today if she was still seeing him and she told me that she wasn’t. I want to believe her but she seemed very evasive talking about it. We have kept that fact that we are hanging out and talking a lot secret from everyone. At first she said that it was because she didn’t want the other guy to find out about it. This weekend she is having a party at her house I’m not sure if the guy will be there but I’m guessing he will be because his best friend lives there. How should I handel the situation if he is there? And what should I do if I find out my ex is still seeing him? I love her very much and really want to make this work. What should I do?
Face it dude she’s just not that into ya! Time to move on down the road.
my gf just got a letter from her ex and ever since shes gotten it shes been acting kinda werid and i love her so much i dont want to lose her, and her ex hurt beet the shit out of her and i'm scared shes gonna want to go back with her! HELP
Why would she leave you to go back to an abusive relationship?
Don't be so insecure. Tell her that you love her and you don't want to lose her but don't go on about it (totally unattractive when somebody acts insecure).
My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 3 years. About 5 months ago we broke up, and now she’s already with someone else (which I must admit does hurt quite a bit). I bought her a lot of jewlery which I also personalized, such as: various necklaces including a Tiffany & Co. necklace with our names and anniversary date engraved, a bracelet with our names engraved, a nice watch, and to top it off…a promise ring with three diamonds. Yes I really loved this girl. I’m really tempted to take it back now that she has a new man, I don’t feel right having her wear them in his presence since they have sentimental value to me. I just don’t want to be a child about it. What do you guys think is right? Should I just let her keep them as a memory of me?
My first thought when I read this was ” WTF what would he do with them?” and then I realized that you could probably either pawn them for money or maybe return them and get your money back!
However, I also realize that it isn’t even about the money or even the jewelery! It’s about the fact that you guys were really serious and then you just broke up and it took her all of 4 seconds to move on to another guy. I think that you’d be okay with her keeping them if you actually felt like she’d taken the time to recover from your relationship ending instead of acting like being together for 3 years wasn’t a big deal.
I totally understand where you are coming from. Keep in mind that you can ask for them back but it doesn’t mean she will give them back. I can see how she would want to keep them because as a girl I can understand the sentimental value of them. However, I can also see how you would want them back as well. Since you poured your heart and your wallet into those gifts.
I think that it’s best to just let it go and let her keep them. It’s not really worth the effort it may take to get them back or the pain it might cause you to talk to her about them or just to her in general.
I don’t know how your relationship ended whether it was a mutual split and ended on somewhat decent terms or if it was a really bad break- up.
Consider the circumstances and the reasons why you ended things as a couple and decide if those circumstances are a good reason for you to feel like you need those gifts back from her. Then if you decide to talk to her about them just approach the situation calmly.
If you ask for anything back I’d say that you should ask for the promise ring! Isn’t that to say that you are kinda engaged but just not officially? I think that’s okay to ask for that back!!!
I mean I think it’s okay to ask for all of it back but if you don’t want to seem to pushy with the whole jewelery issue I’d just ask for the ring back!!!
Just remember what I said- Consider how the relationship ended and go from there in how you pursue this issue!
Good luck! 
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