My ex broke up with me 2 months ago but still keeps in contact every 10 days or so by text to see how I am. She broke it off because she still has some feelings for an old ex who keeps leading her along and he lives with his new girlfriend. They were each others first love. Do you think 2 months has been too long for any chance of her returning. I have moved on and started dating other girls, but I really like her.
What has to hit you in the groin a sledge hammer? Are You the helpless little puppy waiting for your owner to return?She will dump you anytime he calls, are you stupid , dumb, or numb? Lets say she comes back and you two get hitched if JOE BLOW calls she will dump you for him. Believe me it will never be over with him. He will keep in touch with her for some on the side for emergency uses.You will be the snivelling slob waiting for scraps of love. If you do not learn now you deserve what you are willing to live without!
How long before an ex comes back?
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:49 am
Forget about her. She left you for someone else that wasn’t even available. Don’t waste your time with her.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
My guess is…BEFORE YOU KNOW IT.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
so then talk to her about it and tell her how is she gona get back with the other guy if he has a girlfriend
maybe she wants to get back with you to and is in the same situation you are …. ever think of that?
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
When she contacts you just simply ignore her. If you are over her and are dating other girls then everything is fine. Don’t fall into the trap of going out with her again, move forward not backward.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
Cut all contact she is playing with you, dont reply to her next time move on get a new g/f one that isnt a total cow
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
he or shes not over you as long as u need
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am
run away!!!!! shes a whore.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:51 am
It seems to me hes stringing her along and shes stringing you along.
If you want something to change see if she wants to do something with you- thats when youll really be able to tell how she feels.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:51 am
Don’t Hold Grudges!!!
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:52 am
Let her go man. Believe me you usually find someone better. And you don’t want her back if she still has feelings for another guy. It isn’t fair for you. Believe me I would know…
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:52 am
I THINK AT THIS POINT ALL YOU CAN DO IS JUST WAIT N SEE,,CAUSE NO MATTER HOW HARD ANY ONE TRYS TO MAKE SOMEONE LOVE THEM,,THEY CANT,,AND WEN A GIRL LOVES SOMONE,,THEN SHES NOT GOING TO LET GO UNTIL THE GUY TELLS HER TO GET LOST,,,ITS GOOD YOUR DATING,,CAUSE I BET YOU WILL FIND THE LOVE O F YOUR LIFE,JUST KEEP LOOKING AND HAVE LOTS OF FUN,,,PEACE
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:52 am
Well back when me and my boyfriend broke up it was about the next week after we had broken up and we got into a huge fight about something I told his mom and he wasnt too happy about it. Well about 3 months after that he added me back on myspace and we started talking on there, then it turned to the cell phones and we started chatting there then we hung out at the pool and now were back together. And dang that was a couple of years ago but yeah it worked.
Just start talking to her more again, then maybe you both will start reconnecting and maybe something will happen, and maybe it wont but I assume that if you like this girl enough you’ll waste around a month or two of your time trying to get her back I mean what could you loose seriously?
Just try it and see how it works out.
Hope I helped good luck.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:52 am
typically ex's only come back when you are already over them. Also given that she wants to go back to waiting for her ex, i'd say you are better off without her.
As much as you liked her she still had her head elsewhere.
If you do for some ungodly reason still want her back you should stop talking to her, she obviously wants what she can't have and isn't happy with what she has.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:54 am
Just move on… she will get her heart broken and come running back to you, and that’s not fair to you. If she can’t make up her mind then she’s not worth it.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:54 am
keep dating your other girls. 2 months is not too long for her to decide to come back. but you also have to realize she is going to leave again if he makes it llook like he wants her again.
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i made the mistake of goin back to my 1st love too many times, and i missed out on good men becuz of it.
August 21st, 2008 at 8:54 am
just leave her ass on the street corner where she belongs, she sounds like a hoe
maybe if u paid her she would be with u cuz some hoes like dat money $$
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:55 am
its time to move on and find a woman who has her time to give. and you deserve to get respect. anyone who drags a person alone for a different ride is evil,selfish, and rude. if you are with someone, its because you want to be, no one is making her say with you or the other guy, it sounds like she s stringing you along until she know which one of you guys will benefit her more, don’t give her thing advantage, you are better than that, find a woman who can tell immediately that you are for her, and no one else…
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:57 am
i think to move on in life is the best think dude
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:57 am
What has to hit you in the groin a sledge hammer? Are You the helpless little puppy waiting for your owner to return?She will dump you anytime he calls, are you stupid , dumb, or numb? Lets say she comes back and you two get hitched if JOE BLOW calls she will dump you for him. Believe me it will never be over with him. He will keep in touch with her for some on the side for emergency uses.You will be the snivelling slob waiting for scraps of love. If you do not learn now you deserve what you are willing to live without!
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:59 am
It is hard to determine how long it would take for an ex-gf to come back. especially as this happened only recently. Since she left you, it means that she wasnt so sure on how she feels about you.
It hurts, but she might be in touch because she still feels the guilt of having to break up with you though its clear she’s confused right now.
Dont try to wait for her for in doing so, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Rather, try to have fun and keep communication lines open. But, don’t jump to conclusions as well just because she’s still in touch with you.
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August 21st, 2008 at 8:59 am
Man if she was coming back,she would been back.Texting you every 10 days come on now.When you love someone no matter how mad they are at you,they would make a way to see you.This girl likes the other guy more.I could be wrong.So baby don’t put all your eggs in one basket.Check out some more.
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August 21st, 2008 at 9:07 am
Aww that sucks..
Well listen.
Have a sweet talk with her.
Tell her you really miss her & everything.
Say this:
“You ex might come back to you or not”,
But just know that I still really like you, ok.
And I want you back.
Even though I have dated other girls, I’m still thinking of you.
2 months ago, we had something special & I still want that”
Say that ONLY if you actually mean it :D/
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Best answer furshure xD